Guys (Esp Nate), remember you can use the EXCEPT rule to add those mail servers or clients that need access to the box:
IE:
deny:UNKNOWN EXCEPT 192.168.0.1,127.0.0.1:ALL:ALL:550 Blah blah, you eat bugs.
I've had to add several IP's to the EXCEPT ruling, and the reason why I haven't replied to these emails is that the forum mail server for e-smith does not have a reverse DNS, so the messages have been bouncing back, hah!
216.191.234.126 is the E-Smith forum smtp server, so be sure to add this to the exception list.
Darrell, thanks for your help in answering this stuff while I was out.
Thanks,
Nathan