1. managed to setup successfuly by adding correct entry to /etc/fstab on client
192.168.1.x:/usr /mnt/whatever nfs defaults 1 2
2.added entries to hosts.allow file on server to allow client to connect(not sure if this is necessary):
# nfs
rpc.nfsd: 192.168.1.0/255.255.255.0
rpc.mountd: 192.168.1.0/255.255.255.0
# portmap
portmap: 192.168.1.0/255.255.255.0
3. added this entry to /etc/export on host server
/usr/ 192.168.1.x(rw,no_root_squash)
The client ip is important because sme has 2 nic cards if configured in server/gateway mode and I kept getting permission denied when I entered the private ip vs. the gateway ip.
I still need to figure out how to start portmap first but I am happy.
I'll have a

for you Byte.
Kris