from a not so new, but not so smart user, me:
Silly questions: My ISP does not allow relaying from my SME server. 1. Will most ISPs work with someone to allow their servers to relay through them? 2. How can I bypass the e-mail services of my SME server? My client machine sends mail, supposedly using my ISPs smtp server but nothing gets delivered and my admin account on SME gets messages from my ISP with "relay access denied". Do I need to shut down the SMTP services on the SME server?