you have to add a user to the mysql.db table
INSERT INTO db VALUES('Address', 'Database', 'User', 'y', 'y', 'y', 'y', 'y', 'y', 'y', 'y', 'y', 'y')
use % as any
then you will find you have access
and the address is where you a accessing from if it changes all the time set it to
% but any one with a pwd can access it.
ps dont forget to add a user as well