Hi Ray,
Thanks for yor comments - think I have tried them all. I agree the issue is spammers - am not sure how to relieve the problem this time round.
One reason I am using SME as a mail server is so I can do the neat things like RBL. Have RBL configured as per the knudsen site, as well as clam, SA and doublebounce installed on an SME 6.5 server.
I am now running abut 100 email domains on this server with over 1000 delivery accounts (using dungog vdomain). This server currently receives 40000+ messages a day, RBL blocks another 15000 to 20000.
I have been delivering all email with no valid address to a spam account so I wouldn't get bounces etc - maybe this is the problem. Maybe SME gasps with some number of email accounts/domains (shame as this box is way way faster than my 6yr old sendmail server which has no problem with many many more users/domains). As I have reported a few years ago SME effectively stops for days with a large maillist (200+) and an attachment (PDF of say 300KB) - maybe the queues are blocking with maillists.
Interestingly this problem seems to have seriously commenced about 7 days ago - any problems with clam/av etc since then?
Have been working on this problem rather intensely for some days and getting no where, qmHandle and qmqtool aren't helping.
Any ideas will be most appreciated...
Regards
kevin