gbentley
> by default sme cannot be used as an open relay..
You best run a test on your server just to be sure it is not an open relay, see
www.abuse.net/relay.html or do
telnet relay-test.mail-abuse.org
> If I try and use our ISP smtp for forwarding...
That will get you out of immediate trouble as the ISP's IP will appear to be the source IP.
>... it also wont talk to us because it wants smtp with auth...
By default sme 6.0 or 6.0.1 does not do this but you can install newer rpms and get the functionality, search for forums posts particularly one by Gordon Rowell.
Also check the contribs.org FAQ's etc.
sme 6.5 has the functionality but you need to enable it.
sme 7beta8 has the functionality also.
I had trouble with one obscure RBL list and eventually I had to get my reverse dns lookup altered by my ISP to match my domain name before the RBL list maintainers would remove my static IP from their list. It took me about 5 months to get this done. I was lucky it was an obscure list that not many people used.
good luck !
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