I am assuming you are using a windows desktop.
The simplest way to gat an rpm to the server is to install winscp
http://winscp.net/eng/index.php. This will allow you to open a session between your desktop and server as root and do all sorts of things. least of which is transfer files.
Just drop the rpm you wish to install into the root directory log in as root in an ssh session and issue rpm -Uvh nameofrpm.rpm and it should install.
To list the files in the directory at the root prompt type ls to get more info use ls -la.
All you would have had to do to install the rpm that you have dropped into an ibay is to go to the folder you dropped the rpm into.
So for instance if you dropped the rpm into admins home folder at the root prompt you would need to issue.
cd /home/e-smith/files/users/admin/home
You will then be in admins home directory an ls will list the files available and you can then install the rpm.
An alternative to doing this would be to issue
rpm -Uvh /home/e-smith/files/users/admin/home/nameofrpm.rpm
Hope this helps.
Tony