nenonano
lol - hope you have some nice pasta and wine this weekend! (my favorites)
Well, I got hold of the server supplier - they advise me to flash the BIOS, which I did. Didn't make any difference

The guy at the shop had the exact same server on his workbench. he fetched the exact same Seagate 1TB drive, plugged it in and it registered the drive.
Must be a fault with my server - the BIOS picks up the unit, but says 0.0GB! I tried all the ports, no change. I plug the 250GB back in and sme says "Do you want to add this drive to the array"
Now I'm back to where I started - well in 45min or so.
I'm going home to chillie tacos and red wine. Speak to you again.