hmm. this is going to be a fun-stopper..
I sure can't go back to mediawiki 1.6 now! it was a pain to install all parts and making it work properly, + I have hundreds of screenshots in it.. I doubt if the updated database is compatible with 1.6? the 1.10 version info says it's not

Can't php4 be installed as cgi? like the howto that shows how to install php5 as cgi.. it seems strange to me that php4+php5cgi is possible but not the reverse..
I don't think the server has enough balls (P4/1GbRAM/20GbHD) to run a vm with another SME7..(?) but I could try, if there is a smeserver-vmware somewhere. . . hmm I see a loooong thread on installing vmware..
btw mysql 5 is ok for the cms I need, it's more a php/sessions thing I think (IANAPhpProgrammer) (actually its only the config part of the cms that doesnt do it's job..)
Regretfully I have not many resources to spend on this, in any case I don't want to break the system as it is in production.. I will just stick with the old web server if this is all impossible!