Hi Selintra,
Just out of interest, did you set the X-lite definition in SARK as being a remote phone?
Yes, the funny thing is that it shows as connected in server-manager and even gives his correct IP

I am now waiting for him to tell me what router he his using, I know that it is a Belkin ADSL2+ Modem router not the exact model yet

But like I said in my opening post I have done this for a couple of my friends in the UK and had no problem, they are both using Linksys routers. My friend in Spain isn't that technical so I will have to send him instructions on how to forward ports, when I asked him what model his router was he replied with Belkin ADSL2+ Modem router

and of course there are quite a few of those on Belkins site

Anyhow I will keep you informed of my progress, unless you can suggest anything else.
Regards,
Del