Hi,
I've been using SME for 6 or 7 years now (I think the first version I used was 5.5). I've always used it in server-gateway mode, and on a fixed, public ip address. In all the time I've never had any problems with hackers/crashes/etc. Our first machine ran for at least 4 years without problems.
We use SME for our own company web & mail, plus I host a couple of sites for friends - just local sports clubs. I'm not at all a computer 'techy', and SME has never given problems, so I guess that it will work fine for you.
Of course, we are just a small company based in Belgium, so we're not a big target for hackers etc. (I hope). But in the same time that we've been runing SME like this, I have a friend who did the same with a windows server - also only a small company - and he had problems with hackers. He switched over to SME this summer and is very happy.