phalon
sme server rejects messages for invalid users, so those messages are getting in by some other devious method, probably just a disguised email address.
Have you enabled RBL & SBL lists, see Email FAQ ?
Have you enabled incoming virus scannning of messages, see server manager email panel ?
Have you enabled spam filtering & rejection, see server manager email panel ?
Have you enabled executable content pattern matching rejection, see server manager email panel ?
Have you scanned all your local workstations for viruses ?
use
iptraf
to monitor source of traffic
and
look in qpsmtpd & qmail logs to see where those messages are coming from.