Apart fm the comment of cactus:
im my case I have installed the OVPN contrib on the SME server (7.2 and 7.3) and the GUI for OVPN on the PC (WinXP) in my home office.
To do a remote control of my PC located in the company office running under WinXP also, I have enabled the "remotedesktop".
On my home PC I am using remote access and via the OVPN tunnel I control my PC in the company office. Works perfect,
absolutely no problems.
Of course, my approach doesn't solve your problem - my intention was just to help by supplying a functional solution (and no need
to use Real VNC or tightVNC). I have tested this approach successfully also on 3G vodafone modem.
gerd