This is very interesting Mary.
Your comments to cactus were demanding, and critical of his answer.
Why is that interesting to me.
That statement relates directly to these entities.
#1 The main topic theme of this thread
#2 The observations of the original poster
#3 Something I (electroman00) initiated
Another way of saying "critical of his answer" is to say "criticized his answer".
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/criticizeI agree that Mary's statement is in fact True.
So I would hope we are in agreement up to this point?
The question now becomes this.
Is there a need to criticize someone or something.
Well we all...
Criticize ourselves
Criticize our friends
Criticize our family members
Criticize our government and it's leaders
Criticize our employer
Criticize our hair
Criticize our makeup
Criticize our very own appearance when we look in the mirror
So it becomes obvious that there is a need for us all to be critical of everything we do everyday
of our lives, for if we are not critical, we would simply vanish from the earth.
What makes us all Critical and Criticize, simply.... we care.
Now we're faced with another question....
Is there an acceptable or unacceptable method to be critical or criticize someone or something.
I pose these two statements....
It is acceptable to criticize the performance.
It is unacceptable to criticize the performer.
Those two statements lead to the problem within this thread, understand the problem and thus the solution will be realized.
Realize, this is not my invention, however it is my understanding.
It can be your understanding, I make no demands, I simply appeal to your desire.
For those that have the need to flame me, thank you, I am honored.
Sincerely, I'm honored.....I'm not being sarcastic.
Have a wonderful day....