Hello Cactus and Charlie.
Thank you for your quick replies, its great

. Let me see if understood this behaviour correctly: this caused by a rule in the smtpd daemon, saying an "external mail server" cannot deliver more that 5 mails at a time. When the sending mail server retries to deliver it receives error: "451 Sorry, too many connections" from the SME, then it stops and tries again in 5 minutes. So delivering the 150 mails would take 150 minutes if it is 5 minutes?. I'm curious about this delay phenomenon do you guys know the wait and retry times?
Charlie the SME server and the sending server are both on
very fast internet connections, so i don't think to delay is caused by lack of bandwidth.