Thanks for the response...
I recently switched from MS Exchange to SME. Email clients are outlook 2000. I set up POP and SMTP options in outlook to point to the SME server.
Route of message? Not 100% sure what you're asking... Let me describe my current network. I have several servers on my network. Currently, I have one NT PDC for my home users, an NT server based firewall, the SME email server, another SME server that I'm going to use for web services and a 3rd that will eventually replace my NT firewall. Right now, everything is on the same private network, all my servers are static IP's, all clients are DHCP. I have one static public IP. Even though everything is on the same network, I doubt the NT PDC is doing anything with the messages (Exchange is still installed and running, but nothing is accessing it right now). All machines on the network point to the firewall PC as the primary gateway/router.
The message starts at the client in outlook, goes to the email server and then is routed through the FW to the recieving email system.
One test I was going to try is using the webmail interface to directly send email from the server rather than use outlook, since the address is a friend of my wife's I asked her to send a test email, I don't know if she's done that yet today.
I appreciate the assistance, please let me know if there's anything else I can provide that would be of help.
Dave