Sophie -
you can manually compile asterisk and copy the jabber resource module:
rpm -q iksemel ;jabber requires iksemel so make sure it is installed first
rpm -q ncurses-devel ;menuselect requires ncurses-devel so make sure it is installed first
cd /usr/src ;or whaterever directory you use for installs
asterisk -V ;find out what asterisk version you are running
wget
http://downloads.digium.com/pub/asterisk/releases/asterisk-1.X.XX.X.tar.gz ;where X.XX.X=version you use
tar -zxvf asterisk-1.X.XX.X ;where X.XX.X=version you use
cd /usr/src/asterisk-1.X.XX.X ;where X.XX.X=version you use
make clean ;optionally use when rebuilding is required
./configure
make menuselect ;select all relevant options (jabber is in Resource Modules)
make
cp res/res_jabber.so /usr/lib/asterisk/modules