A while ago now I moved my SME7 server to a new hardware platform. At that time I had trouble with the networking of VMware guests.
Some of these problems are discussed here
http://bugs.contribs.org/show_bug.cgi?id=5730.
After A lot of trial and error I could solve it by switching off the offloading options in the ethernet driver as follows:
/usr/sbin/ethtool -K eth0 sg off rx off tx off tso off
So it may be worthwile to try this and see if it fixes it.
To make this fix permanent, I ended up with a small script that is run at startup:
#!/bin/sh
#
# This script disables the offloading options for the eth0 driver as these
# options enabled cause problems with the the network connections on VMware guests.
# See also http://bugs.contribs.org/show_bug.cgi?id=5730
#
ETHTOOL="/usr/sbin/ethtool"
DEV="eth0"
OFFLOAD_OPTIONS="sg off rx off tx off tso off"
case "$1" in
start)
echo -n "Disabling eth0 offloading options to fix VMware networking bug ...";
$ETHTOOL -K $DEV $OFFLOAD_OPTIONS;
echo " done.";;
stop)
;;
esac
exit 0