I'm also having trouble sending or receiving email since I moved the server a couple of weeks ago. It was moved to a new ISP, so my first suspicion is that the new ISP is blocking port 25, though they say that is not the case.
Attempts to send mail out from my SME server are rejected (about a week later) with the following:
Hi. This is the qmail-send program at familybrown.org.
I'm afraid I wasn't able to deliver your message to the following addresses.
This is a permanent error; I've given up. Sorry it didn't work out.
<xxxxx@me.com>:
Sorry, I wasn't able to establish an SMTP connection. (#4.4.1)
I'm not going to try again; this message has been in the queue too long.
Attempts to send mail to the server bounce (again, about a week later) with the following:
Message-id: <a2b20f6c-6b51-cf2d-d980-8118bb29c40c@me.com>
Date: Sat, 18 Dec 2010 12:09:38 +0000 (GMT)
From: Dan Brown <danb35@me.com>
To: Dan Brown <dan@familybrown.org>
Subject: Test
Your message is being returned; it has been enqueued and undeliverable for
4 days to the following recipients:
Recipient address: dan@familybrown.org
Reason: unable to deliver this message after 4 days
Delivery attempt history for your mail:
Wed, 22 Dec 2010 17:23:34 -0800 (PST)
TCP active open: Failed connect() 68.209.142.228:25 Error: Connection timed out
(with the last message repeating several times over that 4-day period).
A port scan on my server from grc.com lists port 25 as "stealth", which would explain the connection failures. Running netstat on my server returns this:
[root@e-smith dan]# netstat -a -n | grep :25
tcp 0 0 0.0.0.0:25 0.0.0.0:* LISTEN
Are there things I should check on my server, or does this behavior indicate an ISP issue?