Ok, mystery solved. You guys saved my server.
followed Stefano's commands. Just works. all folders have been restored. (Grazie!)
Then, messages were finally correctly queued.
But still mails were not delivered.
2011-10-17 23:06:32.447074500 info msg 22544406: bytes 1162 from <my@mail.asd> qp 7938 uid 453
2011-10-17 23:06:32.555822500 starting delivery 1: msg 22544406 to remote remote@mail.lol
2011-10-17 23:06:32.555846500 status: local 0/10 remote 1/20
2011-10-17 23:06:37.827103500 delivery 1: deferral: Connected_to_127.0.0.1_but_greeting_failed./Remote_host_said:_451_Could_not_auth_to_mail_server/
2011-10-17 23:06:37.840227500 status: local 0/10 remote 0/20
This is EXACTLY the issue i had months ago: one day i've found tons of mails in remote queue with this error. I fixed in some way SMTP auth with remote server and delete qmail queue (maybe i've remove "@domain.com" from username to auth). Having the appropriate Contrib, I don't remember to have done an "rm -rf" for this, but can't find different explanation.
Bad boy.
Now, i've follow yours suggestion here Charlie:
http://bugs.contribs.org/show_bug.cgi?id=4544#c17Well done. Works like a charm!
I know, i should be ashamed, but would track this issue for future users.
Remains unclear why the server has continued to send for a while, from a few months ago until three days ago. I assure that server have sent mail in recent weeks. I think my ISP isn't very "clean"...
Thank you so much.