Have you ran full virus scans on your 5 LAN PC's ? / Yes
Are your PC email clients configured to send mail via the sme servers smtp server or are they sending directly to your ISPs smtp server ? / Yes
Is anonymous@kompiuteriai.eu associated with your sme server ? / Yes
Is that a valid user, is that your domain name ? / No and yes its my domain name (kompiuteriai.eu)
Also you said you enabled spam control, exactly what did you enable & where ? / Configuration -> Email -> email filtering settings -> enabled (virus scan, spam filtering, spam sensitivity, sens. level 4)
Why do you say that there was "silence", how do you know that. / Because i dont see any emails going out from the server
What makes you believe that enabling spam control caused that blacklisting situation to change. / Because atm we r out of blacklist, also i can think my server could send junk emails because of another infected computer which im repairing and connecting to my lan to get drivers and other stuff. My job is computer engineering, and ive got alot infected computers, that could be a reason of black list too.
Also what blacklist was your server on, how do you know that ? / Ive got email message from "senderscore.org" about my email spam, and they add my server to the blacklist, after i made changes also updated my sme server, i write a message to remove me from the list, and they did, so for now im out of the list, i cant say its fine 100% but at this time, i dont see any spam messages.