In my log file /var/log/httpd/admin_error_log I now see this message
I believe that is an indication that your old httpd binary is/way still running after the httpd update - and it was responding to a HUP signal (i.e. an apache graceful restart). Once a full restart of apache has completed (e.g. during reconfiguration/reboot) you won't see that message again.
I presume that you have already done the reconfiguration reboot. So now do:
sv h /service/httpd-admin
and check your httpd/admin_error_log file. You won't see that warning re mod_status.so. Correct?