113 is ident. Steve Gibson seems to think it's some huge security hole, but it's really not in my eyes. Some servers (mail, IRC, etc.) make an ident connection first. If you have a firewall that "stealths" the port (just drops the packets instead of accepting or denying them), the mail/IRC server will keep trying until it times out. This can cause a 30-60 second delay before the connection is actually made. Do a search of these forums (make sure you select "all dates") for "ident" and you should find more than you ever wanted to know.