Thanx for the link Andrei, I have looked at that, but unfortunately as I do not have static IP addresses, I cannot utilize this method.
I have dynamic addresses, but both are registered with dyndns.
I did install freeswan, but as it expects IP addresses rather than URL's, it was a no go, unless I continuously update the IP addresses whenever I want to get both servers connected, which is cumbersome...
Anyone cracked this yet?