Hi Guck,
I've done this already. The secondary MX setup was not the issue.
In any case, I finally did manage to figure it out and put in the correct rule.
Guck Puppy wrote:
>
> This is explicitly what the secondary (tertiary,
> quartery(sp?)) mx records are for - it's all done at the dns
> level.
>
> Who is holding your dns records (and thus your primary,
> secondary, etc MX records) for you? register.com? your ISP?
> dyndns.org maybe?
>
> Well, whoever it is, it's there that you would make the
> additional mx record that points to your backup mail server.
>
> dyndns.org says it well :
>
http://support.dyndns.org/whitepapers/mail.php (point 3)