Obtuse SMTPD is very easy to work with and is secure, I'm not sure what options are directly available for mail-front (SME 5.5+). I'm still 4.1.2, I've not had a reason to upgrade (by upgrade, I mean distribution, I've since upgraded many packages such as Apache, PHP, OpenSSL, IMAP, and have been as current as possible in applying bug and security updates, etc).
I was checking out ordb and found the test message option, everything is working out great. ordb looks very professional, however, spamcop.net looks a little "new". What can you tell me about the other blocking mechanisms that you're using? I really do appreciate this information, I was thirsting for a working spam blocking mechanism outside of user-defined spam filtering and MX/NS blocking (which as you stated above, blocks too many legitimate messages).
In the future, if I discover any additional blocking mechanisms, I'll be sure to let you know.
Thanks again,
Nathan