OK well after running around like a headless chook I sat down and did a bit of detective work, and found out that qmail was not running, even after a reboot, so I started it with:
/etc/rc.d/init.d/qmail start
But still didnt fit the original problem, so I found that under /services there is a smtpfront-qmail and that wasnt running either, so I started it using:
/etc/rc.d/init.d/smtpfront-qmail start
And then everything was fine, and just to see whether is was starting upon reboot, I rebooted and both services started fine, still no clue on why they stopped though, seems they just stopped for no reason, oh well tradgedy averted

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Just wondering what you might think of this:
/etc/rc.d/init.d/smtpfront-qmail status
/service/smtpfront-qmail: up (pid 1179) 892 seconds, normally down
My concern is the "normally down" bit?
Cyrus Bharda