Ah, just found it in the resource kit, under Communications, Dial Up Networking, called Direct Cable Connection.
It was fussy about protocols
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The host computer can act as a gateway to an IPX/SPX or NetBEUI network, but not to a TCP/IP network.
So you might need to add the IPX/SPX or NetBui protocol to another Win PC
Note After the host connects to the network, it can access shared resources on the guest computer.
To install Direct Cable Connection during Windows 95 Setup, you must choose Custom or Portable as the setup type. You can also install it after installing Windows 95.
To install Direct Cable Connection after Windows 95 installation
1. In the Add/Remove Programs icon in Control Panel, click the Windows Setup tab.
2. In the Components list, click Communications, and then click the Details button.
3. In the Communications dialog box, click Direct Cable Connection, and then click OK.
Windows 95 provides a Direct Cable Connection wizard for establishing the connection between two computers. The wizard runs when you open Direct Cable Connection for the first time. It allows you to designate one computer as the guest and the other as a host. Before you run the wizard, you need to install Direct Cable Connection on each computer and connect them with a null-modem serial or parallel cable.
For more information about setting up Direct Cable Connection, see online Help.
Windows 95 supports a serial null-modem standard (RS-232) cable and the following parallel cables:
· Standard or Basic 4-bit cable, including LapLink and InterLink cables available before 1992.
· Extended Capabilities Port (ECP) cable. This type of cable works on a computer with ECP-enabled parallel ports, which must be enabled in BIOS. This kind of parallel cable allows data to be transferred more quickly than a standard cable.
· Universal Cable Module (UCM) cable. This cable supports connecting different types of parallel ports. Using this cable between two ECP-enabled ports allows the fastest possible data transfer between two computers.
Parallel cables transmit data simultaneously over multiple lines, making it the faster of the two connection methods. Serial cables transmit data sequentially over one pair of wires, and are slower than parallel cables. Use a serial cable only if a parallel port is unavailable.
Regards
Ray Mitchell