I found same problem in my server.
Searching in google with "ps qmail-remote @" and got this as first link.
Also, when I check /var/log/messges, they are using my bind, the dns server to search other domain with dns.
Some servers got my dns service and using my bind to search other domain dns. Also, when I check the queue/message, they are pointing my e-mail server trying sending mail to "david" "mary" and "peter". A lot e-mail reply to unknown sender.
I will check the settings if I could drop those e-mail instead defaultly reply the failure mail to sender.
Well, my solution is...
Find out the way to block the IPs who 'dig' my dns?
Find out the way to drop the e-mail for not existing user?
I hate those people strealing my server resource!