I run an Athlon 64 3000+ (2GHz, 512k cache) on a Socket 754 motherboard.
I haven't yet tried running SME Server on it as its my main PC, but I can tell you from experience, my system doesn't really run too hot.
I'm using a standard cooler which came with the processor (I bought a retail boxed package) and the CPU runs at around 38ÂșC.
The AMD Athlon 64 CPUs at least (and I assume Opteron CPUs also have 'Cool & Quiet' technology which basicly slows the processor down when it isn't being used fully, say for instance when the machine is idle. I don't know how this would work in practice for a server but it is supposed to cool the processor down when the machine isn't being fully used.
Just a thought, but maybe you could consider the new Socket 939 CPUs that are being released? If I recall correctly they support dual channel DDR memory (my A64 3000+ on an MSI motherboard doesn't support dual channel).
You might also find that a standard Athlon 64 would do the job just as well as an Opteron at a lower cost.
Regarding the DVD-RW, do you know how much data you're likely to be backing up?
My server (consists of about 5 users and 2 workstations attached to it) has around 20GB of data already so backing up to DVD isn't an option.
If you're going to use less than 4.3GB of data, I would suggest getting a drive like the
LG GSA-4082B DVD writer which does DVD+R/RW, DVD-R/RW and DVD-RAM. DVD-RAM media, albeit a little more expensive is supposed to have a better storage life than convential -/+ RW media and it basicly acts like a big floppy disk.
Thats just my thoughts on it anyway.
Hope this all helps.
Rob