I think I have found the source of the problem and am sure it's a networking problem. When I boot SME on it's own it works fine but however when I boot it up via my PC using Windows ME(yes the worst OS created ever) it shuts down sometimes when I'm ending a session via SSH Putty, sometimes when I log in as admin it shuts down the server ..so it's pretty random. The way I see it I can do everything via SME only instead of through windows client like putty , change my OS or kep trying to fix it. I did have trouble networking my PC to the server at the start and had to end up making it a domain to get it to network.Obviously it doesn't like that!Anyone had this problem before.
Cheers
HellNZ