Here is a copy of top, nothing taking too much RAM, but there is only 21M free.  Looks like I will be adding another 512M to it.
11:58am  up 4 days, 16:09,  1 user,  load average: 0.03, 0.16, 0.30
101 processes: 95 sleeping, 6 running, 0 zombie, 0 stopped
CPU states:  2.1% user,  0.9% system,  0.0% nice, 96.8% idle
Mem:   255772K av,  233836K used,   21936K free,       0K shrd,   14864K buff
Swap:  264952K av,   90752K used,  174200K free                   82948K cached
  PID USER     PRI  NI  SIZE  RSS SHARE STAT %CPU %MEM   TIME COMMAND
12656 root      15   0 52596  38M 36452 R     1.7 15.3   6:25 snort-mysql
30651 root      15   0  1048 1048   812 R     0.3  0.4   0:00 top
29828 qmailr    15   0   444  444   372 S     0.1  0.1   0:00 qmail-remote
29838 qmailr    15   0   444  444   372 S     0.1  0.1   0:00 qmail-remote
29842 qmailr    15   0   444  444   372 S     0.1  0.1   0:00 qmail-remote
    1 root      15   0   480  436   416 S     0.0  0.1   0:05 init
    2 root      15   0     0    0     0 SW    0.0  0.0   0:00 keventd
    3 root      15   0     0    0     0 SW    0.0  0.0   0:00 kapmd
    4 root      34  19     0    0     0 SWN   0.0  0.0   0:00 ksoftirqd_CPU0
    5 root      15   0     0    0     0 RW    0.0  0.0   2:25 kswapd
    6 root      15   0     0    0     0 SW    0.0  0.0   0:00 bdflush
    7 root      15   0     0    0     0 SW    0.0  0.0   0:00 kupdated
    8 root      25   0     0    0     0 SW    0.0  0.0   0:00 mdrecoveryd
   16 root      25   0     0    0     0 SW    0.0  0.0   0:00 raid1d
   17 root      25   0     0    0     0 SW    0.0  0.0   0:00 raid1d
   18 root      25   0     0    0     0 SW    0.0  0.0   0:00 raid1d
   19 root      15   0     0    0     0 SW    0.0  0.0   1:26 kjournald
Thanks