Hi again my friends !
Thank you very much Mumm-ra and duncan for the advice.
I did the test in
http://www.abuse.net/relay.html.
The results were negative, meaning that my SME server cannot be used as an open relay though it can reply to certain commands using Telnet as duncan said.
I sent a copy of the results to my ISP.
I have learned something new !
This all started 2 weeks ago when a friend located in California and with an account with AOL told that he felt that something was wrong with my email traffic. I am located in Buenos Aires, Argentina. Most of my messages were considered SPAM. To make a long story short, my local ISP (a very big one) had loaded a black list from abuseat.org and they were blocking they own clients by blocking "neighbour dynamic IP´s"
I couldn´t send an email to my own account from my own ADSL connection !!!! I wrote to these guys abuseat.org and told them to explain my ISP how the list should be used, and finally I got unblocked. They confirmed that I had never been listed. Later an operator from my local ISP called me and told me that it was strange because he could Telnet my port 25, and you know the rest of the story.
Thank you very much for your help guys !