I had one big break in attempt on my SME a few months back, 2:30 hours of 3-4 attepts per 10 seconds, to stop that from ever happening again, I started using pptp and disabled ssh remotly, another good thing to look at is rkhuner, there's a contrib here for it, one good think it tells you apart from any changes that have been made behind your back, is if ssh1 is alowed, and it shouldn't be, look at the update script, don't run the whole thing just check out what it updates, and install them your self.
hope that helps
cheers