Hi mrjhb3 & bushinc,
Thanx for getting back to me, this morning I thought I'd try Dmay's contrib with your fix mrjhb3, and well I was giving up hope again, because last night I thought maybe I need to give it more time, well around 2:10 I did a ps -aux and found that the Restorenow wasn't running in the background any more, and when I checked the directory the file was restored, I didn't think it would take 4 hours to do so, since backing up all 13 gig's takes around 4 and a half hours.
By the way we have a DD3 tape backup system for that office.
It's just that it doesn't give any info as it's restoring and it was only using around 2% of the CPU resources, when backing up uses a lot more, I thought it wasn't working, and since you mentioned
One note: When you do a restore, for some reason, the tape stays active after restoring the file
I thought that's what was showing up when listing processes.
So it's all good at the moment, thanx again for getting back to me, I started thinking that no one will, and was giving up hope

cheers