Problem = not sending smtp mail

conditions= smtp through sme6.0.1-01 to multiple smtp servers (isp and host).
Hi I'm new to SME have installed 6.5rc1(edit: I have since downgraded to 6.0.1-01) and need HELP!
Is it possible to send mail using external mail servers and still keep the functionality of gateway/public server?
I want to send email using:
1. my hosted website server (bluehost), and
2. my ISP (rogers) smtp.
Looks like SME is "catching" outgoing smtp and trying to act as my Mail server...this is not what I want, unless I can make it work.
I had 19 messages in queue having been delayed for 55,000 seconds+. Failure to connect:
del xdelay reason
492 55089.49 Sorry, I wasn't able to establish an SMTP connection.
WUT AM I DOING WRONG HERE?
Topology=cable-modem/SME6.0.1-01-pubsrv+gateway/router/workgroup
Please, any help would be great..even if you simply tell me where I can find the right config procedure.
Thanks in advance.
-Nathan