It doesn't seem to be a modem problem....
Tested the friend's modem at my place and everything worked fine.... then again, I use an IPCop firewall.
So I started to check the logs of the SME server and found lines like this:
filialen kernel: denylog:IN=eth1 OUT= MAC=00:0a:cd:0d:f2:5c:00:d0:01:7e:13:fc:08:00 SRC=62.132.0.89 DST=83.227.185.136 LEN=70 TOS=0x00 PREC=0x00 TTL=116 ID=33109 PROTO=UDP SPT=6902 DPT=41681 LEN=50
which is pretty much greek to me, but at least I recognise the MAC address of the SME server's outside network card,
eth1 ( 00:0a:cd:0d:f2:5c ). The MAC 00:d0:01:7e:13:fc could possibly be the address of the other end (the gateway side) of the outside connection, since it is one of the addresses returned by the
arp command on the SME server. The SRC=62.132.0.89 is not recognised by any DNS server (
nslookup) but is hopefully the voipbuster server that is denied to get in.... 83.227.185.136 is naturally my friend's internet address. SPT=6902 might be the UDP port that voipbuster uses.....
Anyway, I tried with and without opening the voipbuster recommended ports - no positive results....
...so I am open for almost any suggestions

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