Hi, thanks to both for reply
gordonr you are right about using an older version
but I have disabled the "dangerous" features that
have known security bugs for now.
I didn't upgrade because lack of time and because
SME6 is painfully SLOW compared to SME 5.6, but
I'm planning to doit in the future.
as gbaird said, I'm not very happy with a beta version
for production usage, but I'm going to test it at home first
I have another server made by me (smaller one, fewer features)
and the way I solve the IP change - port forwarding problem, was
using the cron, with a script every 2 minutes test the external IP
if it is different than the last time, it reloads the
iptables
rules, I know it's a nasty idea but it solved my problem

,
however in SME, I don't know what
script load the entire current rules (including the
port forwarding ones) that's why I didn't doit here yet.
anyway if SME7 has this feature built in... I better
start trying, and wait for the final release to
update all of my other servers

thanks a lot
lightman