The reason of your pb is that the SIP protocol
can't be natted nor portforwarded, you must use a 'SIP proxy' as a gateway for your lan. The WRT54G with the adequate firmware could be a good idea, placing your SME Se'rver&Gateway behind, in 'DMZ', as your A@H server.
The other solution, is to use our A@H contrib for SME, that you can find at
http://firewall-services.com. It's designed for the SME7 version.
We won't refuse a little help for documentation, fine tuning, test of different phone service provider's ...
At least, installing our contrib will transform your SME to a SIP proxy, convenient for your existing A@H box.
The other solution is to use the AIX protocol wich is ok for natting & portforwarding.
Hope this helps,
RV.[/b]