'PuTTY' is a program that allows you to logon to your server. It runs on your Windows PC and opens a black-box DOS style window that allows you to logon and runn commands ON YOU SERVER.
You need to get and install PuTTY (Google for it...it is less than 500Kb download). Then you need to learn how tio use it.....see the help that comes with it.
You also need a program to allow you to transfer files from your PC to the SME server. WinSCP is a good one. Once again, Google for it. ...it isn't a large download. Use the help file to learn how to use it. It operates very much like WinFTP. You have two panes, one showing directories on your PC and the other showing Directories on the target PC (SME server). You just drag and drop files from one to the other.
SO, you get the RPM file from your PC to SME server using WinSCP.
Then you use PuTTY to log on to SME server as root and do the linux install as outlined above...and you can then do the command line running to do a mass delete of emails.
Sorry to leave so much to you to learn, but there you go....part of life's rich tapestry, hey?
Cheers