To Charllie & teviot
Thanks for that Charlie, and I agree with it wholeheartedly.
To teviot
I would suggest then, that you don't say things that could be construed to be offensive.
Be factual & accurate in questions you ask or statements you make.
Even if you have a gripe, you have no right to "take it out" on people involved with these forums & sme server generally.
Everyone here contribs answers & time voluntarily.
Most of us do not know each other personally & we therefore have no right to criticise.
Many of the people who contrib time & effort FREELY, are professional IT people, and to get use of their time normally would cost you hundreds of dollars.
I don't recall the "conversations" you made which people thought were "offensive", but perhaps you need to listen better to what they have to say, and don't be over reactive.
After all, the written word (particularly english) can be easily misconstrued, there are many people here who speak different languages and interpret word meaning slightly differently.
Try to post your questions & answers without involving emotion, without being in a hurry, and without criticising others. I believe you will get better feedback then.