Hi all
Before you tell me todo a search, or to learn the inner workings of SME, let me shed some background on what I need.
I currently have two identical PIV machines with 2x 160GB SATAII HDD's, setup with software RAID on Suse 9.3. Using Heartbeat the two machines act as a failover cluster. Furthermore, I use RSYNC to sync a PHP based app between the two and run MySQL-Max 5.0.15 to get master-master database replication.
This work(ed) well for quite some time, untill one of the HDD's in one of server went corrupt, and took down the whole server.

Luckely, there is two server, so no downtime.
This whole setup took me about 2 days to get working, since none of the stuff is built in to Suse, so it's trail & error all the way. RAID in itself was rather trail & error, since Grub doesn't boot properly from the second HDD.
SME caters for RAID, and can setup RAID on the fly, which I like but I have some very important questions to ask, and would like some input. Searching the forums, and trying to read throug aprox 2317 threads isn't really getting me far, as I don't have that much time on my hands.
So, here goes:
1. What's the most reliable setup? I want to use software RAID, as the client can't afford hardware RAID. Would a 4xHDD config as RAID 5 be good enough? Budget is limited and RAID 1 didn't work well.
2. In the event of a harddrive failure, how would I be notified of it? How easy is it to replace the HDD? The client in question is about 700Km's away, so I can't just pop-in and out as I like to fix problems. In this case I'd Fedex the new HDD(s) to the client, guide him over the phone on howto fit the new HDD, and then try and rebuild the RAID array via the internet.
3. What filesystem is being used? Is it easy to upgrade the HDD space?
I'v read through the manual, and as many posts on the forum as I can, but can't find defenate answers to my questions.