Maybe we should widen the search for the list of established connections.  Try this:netstat -an | grep ESTThe sample you've provided shows lots of DNS queries (UDP connection; remote port is 53), but we only caught them because the supposedly random local port numbers begin with 25 (":2577", ":2585").
If you have RHSBL enabled you may want to turn it off (this is advice I received in the topic I posted earlier)config setprop qpsmtpd RHSBL disabled
JonB, in the same topic, found that the number of DNS queries generated by the RHSBL function was overloading his ADSL "modem" (I'm paraphrasing here...) and talks specifically about problems with "PPPoA" connections (with which I am unfamiliar).
Do you know if the RAM test ran at least one complete cycle in 15 minutes?  I've never used the SME RAM test, so I don't know how long it should take.
Hi Michael,
the following is the netstat output soon after it went down.
# netstat -an |grep EST
tcp        0     55 203.45.252.173:25           124.90.17.108:39065         ESTABLISHED
tcp        0      0 192.168.1.1:3128            192.168.1.212:4210          ESTABLISHED
tcp        0      0 203.45.252.173:33127        61.9.208.13:5050            ESTABLISHED
tcp        0      0 192.168.1.1:3128            192.168.1.212:4283          ESTABLISHED
tcp        0      0 192.168.1.1:22              192.168.1.212:4230          ESTABLISHED
tcp        0      0 203.45.252.173:33151        216.17.211.37:80            ESTABLISHED
tcp        0      0 192.168.1.1:3128            192.168.1.212:4326          ESTABLISHED
tcp        0      0 192.168.1.1:3128            192.168.1.212:4094          ESTABLISHED
tcp        0      0 192.168.1.1:139             192.168.1.212:4042          ESTABLISHED
tcp        0      0 192.168.1.1:3128            192.168.1.212:4292          ESTABLISHED
tcp        0      0 192.168.1.1:3128            192.168.1.212:4289          ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 127.0.0.2:21632             127.0.0.2:53                ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:25601        65.54.240.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:44417        207.68.160.190:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:12418        64.233.179.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:1027         192.0.34.43:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:24067        209.85.139.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:46211        202.12.29.59:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:39427        64.233.167.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:31108        139.91.1.10:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:24580        64.233.167.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:62212        65.55.238.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:32517        207.68.160.190:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:48263        192.0.34.126:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:62727        213.199.161.77:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:3463         216.239.38.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:59400        207.46.66.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:30601        209.85.139.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:28170        64.233.161.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:59402        209.85.139.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:38283        202.12.29.59:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:37131        216.239.34.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:43403        207.68.160.190:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 127.0.0.2:17163             127.0.0.2:53                ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:17164        72.14.235.9:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:40333        207.68.160.190:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:24845        207.68.160.190:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:51854        64.233.167.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:57231        207.68.160.190:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:39567        64.233.167.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:33936        65.55.238.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:28689        65.55.238.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:20369        209.85.139.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:16145        216.239.32.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 127.0.0.2:19217             127.0.0.2:53                ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:50065        207.68.160.190:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:2963         64.233.161.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:53140        192.0.34.126:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:49172        64.233.161.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:26388        207.46.66.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:20372        64.233.167.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:10134        207.46.66.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:50070        64.233.179.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:35223        64.233.179.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:61591        209.85.137.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 127.0.0.2:28823             127.0.0.2:53                ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 127.0.0.2:31639             127.0.0.2:53                ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:25367        216.239.34.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:45464        216.239.32.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:58649        192.0.34.43:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:21657        72.14.235.9:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:36121        64.233.167.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:53401        64.233.161.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:53658        147.28.0.39:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:38682        213.199.161.77:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:13852        207.46.66.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:8991         209.85.139.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:1440         193.0.0.236:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:15904        209.85.137.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 127.0.0.2:31393             127.0.0.2:53                ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:52641        209.85.139.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:23587        66.249.93.9:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:57379        216.239.32.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:20900        193.0.0.236:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 127.0.0.2:24868             127.0.0.2:53                ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:65444        213.199.161.77:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:51620        64.233.179.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:55077        207.68.160.190:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:31909        207.46.66.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:60454        64.233.161.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:60838        213.199.161.77:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:49575        66.249.93.9:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:2087         216.239.32.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:48680        207.46.66.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:53288        216.239.32.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:15401        209.85.137.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:18858        139.91.1.10:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:3242         209.85.139.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:30762        216.239.36.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:8107         64.233.161.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:8236         147.28.0.39:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:39213        72.14.235.9:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:41645        139.91.1.10:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:44846        65.54.240.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:51374        65.54.240.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:3118         209.85.139.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:62382        65.54.240.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:9264         216.239.32.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 127.0.0.2:57136             127.0.0.2:53                ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:8241         192.0.34.43:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:58673        193.0.0.236:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:8881         207.68.160.190:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:59058        207.68.160.190:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:5170         64.233.179.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:38835        209.85.137.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:37940        72.14.235.9:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:2869         207.68.160.190:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:47157        209.85.139.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:43190        65.54.240.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:21944        66.249.93.9:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:56760        216.239.34.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:36665        209.85.137.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:32953        72.14.235.9:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:8634         139.91.1.10:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:55355        213.199.161.77:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:4796         207.68.160.190:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:25277        64.233.161.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:21310        216.239.38.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 127.0.0.2:33982             127.0.0.2:53                ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:15422        216.239.36.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:22847        209.85.137.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:49471        207.46.66.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:15551        209.85.139.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:1472         139.91.1.10:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:63425        64.233.167.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:56001        216.239.32.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:25027        216.239.34.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:55491        64.233.179.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:38851        64.233.179.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:3396         207.68.160.190:53           ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:49604        65.55.238.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:57028        209.85.139.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:47941        209.85.137.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:24774        209.85.139.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:46919        139.91.1.10:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:26311        207.46.66.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:22216        64.233.167.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:37448        202.12.29.59:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:36552        64.233.167.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:58186        65.55.238.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:26699        65.55.238.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:45259        209.85.137.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:1484         64.233.167.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:57036        216.239.32.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:37581        72.14.235.9:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:32334        72.14.235.9:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:46414        209.85.139.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:58062        66.249.93.9:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:38224        65.54.240.126:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:26577        66.249.93.9:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:33874        72.14.235.9:53              ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:24147        64.233.179.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:37972        216.239.34.10:53            ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:10581        209.85.137.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 127.0.0.2:52949             127.0.0.2:53                ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:7639         209.85.137.9:53             ESTABLISHED
udp        0      0 203.45.252.173:36823        209.85.137.9:53             ESTABLISHED
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RHSBL has been turned off.  
The RAM test was the windows one and does 6 tests which it cycled through about 4 times before I got tired of it.  
The thing that beats me is that it is so erratic.  BTW I loaded all the SW uploads available.  No difference.  
I use Telstra who make use of thier hearbeat to check if you are still active on the cable modem and I noticed in the message log 
un 11 20:28:45 coastbiz bpalogin[4264]: Timed out waiting for heartbeat - logging on 
Jun 11 20:28:48 coastbiz bpalogin[4264]: Logged on as coastbiz - successful at Mon Jun 11 20:28:48 2007 
This occurs every seven minutes but when the connection fails then there is no 
Jun 11 20:28:48 coastbiz bpalogin[4264]: Logged on as coastbiz - successful at blah blah
But the interesting this is that I do not loose my IP address.  If I disconnect the server from the cable modem and re-attach after ten minutes I get a new IP address.  Even though I seem to loose connectivity on mail and Internet I still retain the IP address.  
What next?  much appreciated
Jan