Thanks Joseph, I haven't had the time to dig into e-smith 4 yet, I may set it up at home sometime soon (no time... no time... where do the time go?....) but now that we have it all up and running at work I doubt that Micro$oft boy's heart could take it if I even mentioned wanting to use a newer version and even with his unnatural (Micro$oft) leanings, he's generally a good guy and I wouldn't want to cause him that kind of upset.
Besides, I am under the impression that for some reason since the mail at work comes in from a corporate server it is setup to work only with an Exchange server. It sounds darn strange to me too... believe me... but by using the port forwarding I was able to make it all work hapily. (hopefully it stays working for a LONG time)
ps... I am looking forward to having the time to setup ver 4 at home and also using it as a print server... I just got me a laser printer and my little woman is getting crabby that she can't print to it too... I tell her she can, but she always wants to try when I have my system shut off (eg. I'm not home). Connecting it to the server will be nice!