Let's see
1 Post with the intent to understand the issue at hand, with a desire to culminate to an agreed solution, if a problem is realized.
2 Post with the intent to be rude, insult, degrade, defame some group, entity or individual.
3 Don't post at all.
Those are fairly simple choices to understand.
1 & 3 should be the only acceptable posting types within an open source software development community.
Should your desire be #2 then I think most everyone will agree that #3 should be be your choice.
There were some very valid points and issue's presented within this thread and if your only ability is to respond with
Put up, Or shut up
Push, Pull or get the &%@#$ out of the way
THEN MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER #3.
I know I would be very grateful if you considered #3, I'm sure others would be grateful and I'm absolutely sure
newcomers to this forum would be grateful if you made #3 your choice.
That behavior is unnecessary, unwarranted, uncalled for, disgraceful, disrespectful and most of all degrading to the entire community.
The purpose of this community is to serve as a meeting place where all can collaborate on the issues and problems and development
of the community.
Anyone who tries to justify....
Put up, Or shut up (112 posts)
Push, Pull or get the &%@#$ out of the way (798 posts)
is doing nothing more then trying to justify deplorable bad behavior.
Maybe you don't realize that, this is not your community, it's everyone's community who donates as well as those that do not.
And who wants to donate to a community where by they will be subjecting themselves to this type of behavior and abuse.
Who in their right mind, would want to donate in any way to support this crap behavior.
Did you even consider that before you posted, I think not.
Maybe you should.
I'm sorry you don't agree with everything that is said in a forum.
That simply doesn't give anyone the right to be abusive in anyway.
Communicating using a respectful & understand approach will yield a positive result.
Positive results is what everyone wants, bottom line..!!
Reasons or Results
Reasons don't count.
The "Results" should not be deplorable bad & abusive negative behavior.
It needs to stop.....
Stop....not only in this thread, but every thread.
Better yet, it doesn't need to stop, for it should never start.
Sure people will come to the forum without an understanding of their issues or problems or minimum level of respect required.
That doesn't mean you should stoop to their level or below or even that you are granted a right somehow to bad & abusive negative behavior.
You are however, granted the right to rise above everything with your skills and knowledge and help them overcome their misunderstandings, issues and problem.
Surely these statements don't fulfill that granted right to help someone, which you had available to you.
Put up, Or shut up (112 posts)
Push, Pull or get the &%@#$ out of the way (798 posts)
The right to be respectful and help someone that is.
You by your very own behavior, took that right from yourself and at the same time disgraced this community.
Is that really what you wanted to project?
Do you think anyone here wants you to project that kind of behavior.
What if someone has a business deploying SME server and makes a living at it, to feed their family and at the same time
donates to this community.
What if their customer, just happened to find this thread and all the others like it in this forum.
What then, you just banter back and forth justifying the behavior.
I think not...because the damage will have been done.
There were two posters one with 3 posts the other with 4 posts and somehow you thought it was appropriate
to end with.......
Put up, Or shut up (112 posts)
Push, Pull or get the &%@#$ out of the way (798 posts)
Looks to me like you guys lost the game by default, you thru in the towel, game over, by default.
That certainly is something to be proud of isn't it.
Grow up..
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