And this is why you should always record observations before you attempt to make any interpretation. You mislead yourself and us that there was a relay problem, when all along it was invalid message format.
And for that I apologize 100 times and will be sure to perform 37 our fathers and 117 hail mary's.

If the bugtracker is where bugs are reported why can't the forums be the place where we ask questions of people with more experience to first figure out if we have a bug?
It's sad that when I read the threads here that a very high percentage of the posts have replies that chastise member's for asking questions. I've opened/participated in bugs once or twice but generally I search here and read what others have found and post. I believe I've even helped the random stranger who somehow knew less than me.
And before you chastise me further and tell me I should have found this information in the logs before I ever posted I'll save you the trouble. This time I goofed it up. Usually I'd have known better but my false intuition told me that this was a relaying issue.
I apologize again but this is a community. I will happily help when/if I can. I hope I never get so jaded as to ride on the high horse than many here seem to be preaching from.