I believe that this is a incorrect configuration of the DNS server only.
If I make "ping
www.wrbit.com" I got an answer.
If I make "ping wrbit.com" I got no answer.
If I make "ping something.wrbit.com I cot no answer.
What I use to do just to make it quick and easy is as mentioned only two A records:
wrbit.com and *.wrbit.com
Then both "ping wrbit.com" and "ping something.wrbit.com" will all resolve to the same ip, ping will answer and mail will come trough.
As the portscan is "positive" I would believe that the DNS issue is the only problem.
Of cource it can be done more "advanced" using MX records as well.
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Does also not work:
http://wrbit.com/ (But this works:
http://www.wrbit.com )
I think that if dns is set so both links will work, and no MX for simplisity, the mail will come trough.