grattman, Igi2003, dgs and nenonano thanks for your interest - I will reply in another post (this post must stand alone in this thread).
I'm actually in high spirits, despite mary's rather barbed reply to my question.
It's always better to walk away from such a response and come back much later -
when the heat is gone.
She's entitled to her opinion, whether I or any one else agrees with it or not.
I apologize for the length of this post, but feel the need to (?defend?) my question??
Please don't bother to read it if you are busy.
At the senior school in SA where I'm fortunate to have employment (read the news lately?),
I work on my own, am self taught on PC's, networks and linux. I have no-one to network with
apart from user-friendly forums. I'm not a spring chicken - I used a slide rule and log tables
in my last year at senior school for heavan's sake.
We are a community school relying on dwindling school fees and lack of governmental support.
Why should I have the need to write all this stuff on a user's forum where we all use the same product with enthusiasm, seeking to assist one another in a co-operative way?
I'm encouraged by the responses that followed mary's reply - apart from individuals, who may be having a bad day, there are many others who are willing to assist the likes of me - trying to do my best in an islolated way.
There are no SME admins in our part of the world, and we could not afford to pay them anyway - the average linux support here is R600 to R700/hour, which probably doesn't mean much to those earning dollars or euros. It's just under 10% of a new teacher post at the school, though.
Thus we work out our own issues, and ask (always respectfully - see above) for help from the forum, from time to time.
I have received much good advice in the past and will continue to use the forum. Grateful thanks to all.
We (by choice) use SME since v7.0, and have been recommending it to others since then.
It's superior in almost every way to other contenders and many thanks are due the dev teams and tireless workers striving to improve our experience.