holck -
You should be able to put your new hardware anywhere in the world in order to do an Affa backup - as long as you can ssh from your old SME to your new one (or vice versa), you can setup Affa.
Once you have an Affa backup on the new server, the "rise" command basically turns it into the old server -- so after you run the 'rise', you need to disconnect the old server and connect the new one.
So, in your case, you could put your new SME on either of your local segments or completely off-site, in server-only or server-gateway mode -- whatever is easiest for you.
I suspect the easiest option would be to set the new server up in 'server-only' mode on the 192.168.10.x network...