I apologize for my lack of attention to detail, but in the original post I didn't note that after setting up dansguardian I have also run a series of commands to put the sme server into stealth mode.
as per this
link I ran the following commands:
config setprop masq Stealth yes
config setprop ftp access private
config setprop smtpd access private
config setprop dnscache access private
config setprop httpd-e-smith access private
config setprop oidentd access private
config setprop modSSL access private
config setprop ssmtpd access private
config setprop sshd access private
config setprop imaps access private
config setprop ldap access private
config setprop pop3 access private
config setprop pop3s access private
config setprop nmbd access private
config setprop smbd access private
signal-event post-upgrade
signal-event reboot
If that throws up any obvious red flags, please let me know. For now I'm trying to find the time to follow the process that mmccarn outlined. Thanks, by the way.